for the short time i know you , it was fun , joy and laughter may you rest in perfect peace and may the lord comfort your family
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Baba Kila,still waiting for your phone call,why why,just can not believe you have gone like that.how am going to get over this,l have not been the same since you have gone.
My tears has not stopped,part of me has not been the same but l hope the lord almighty will healed me as time goes on,but at this monent it still hurts badly.
Baba kila pls answer me,u can not leave us like this.
Adieu Tope,
I share this sad loss more for his children, sibling & elderly mum. I pray God grants them the courage to bear this sad loss. And aslo pray for "HIS Grace" to keep the family strong after Tope was gone*
Tope, you gave life your very best, left everyone wondering why should you depart so early - The only consolation is that it's the sure testimony of our omnipotent God who knows best. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace at the bosom of our Lord!
2 Timothy 4:7 - You have fought the good fight. you have completed the race. You have kept the faith [you*]
UNBELIEVABLE!!! May u rest in perfect peace, AMEN. I regret that i did not have much time to spend with you as a cousin, but i know it is not the end of the world even after dead. I will miss you as a cousin, uncle, brother and friend. GOOD-BYE
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around you and whispered "come to me." With tearful eyes we watched you, and saw you pass away. Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best. May You Rest In Perfect Peace In The Bossom Of The Lord.
May your soul rest in peace Tope. The Lord keep watch over your kids and family. All my love. Bimbo
What a rude shock to hear about Tope's sudden passing!!
It seems just like the proverbial yesterday when we worked together on a night shift - Tope was one of the friendiliest and most jovial colleagues I have ever had - never a dull moment in sight - joking, gisting etc. Ensuring an otherwise tedious and boring night shelf filling went swiftly and of course the groups' occassional breakfast at McDonalds!
What can I say?! But praise God for the Truth: that you knew Christ and therein lies our comfort, knowing that you are resting in the Bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ!
May The Good Lord send His Holy Spirit - Our Comforter to comfort every member of your family and friends too - Amen!
May your gentle soul continue to rest in the peace of God - Amen!
I still find it difficult to believe Tope is gone. If I had known you were hours away, i would continued to talk and talk with you for as long as i can. You arranged to be at my place on monday 04/05/09 to collect your belated birthday cake and get to know my wife the more. You were to be our guest for the whole of Tuesday but it pleases GOD to call you home. HE knows better. You were such a lovely person, a friend and actually a brother, a very rare one. The very short period I got acquanted with you will forever remain with me. I will cherish it until that day when we meet to part no more. As the bible say ; the trumpet shall sound and the dead shall be raised in corruptible, and we shall be changed in a moment in the twinkling of an eye. This is my consolation. You slept [not died] in CHRIST and I know you will ressurect on the last day. Your last moment tells us that JESUS CHRIST can come anytime so it's a warning to all of us he left behind to turn towardds CHRIST who knows and understands all. I just pray that GOD grants us all the grace to bear your depature.
Apart from being a great uncle, you were also a great friend. There are alot of memories which i will cherish for the rest of my life. May your soul rest in perfact peace uncle.
You might be gone, but you would never be forgotten.
I last saw you on a summery afternoon at NCC Edmonton
Alas, life is but transition, death is inevitable for all.
May the Lord comfort all whom you have left behind.
TemiTope Oladele omo Kila, My daring Brother, "HOW ARE THE MIGHTY HAVE FALLEN" . I thank God for your life. For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
TOPE you have a good life, although your have a short life but you live a fulfiled life.
Tope you are very dear to me, your love for me and the rest of the family is wonderful, you are too expenssive to buy with money, you are one in billion.
Tope you demonstrated LOVE;
A good name is better than a day of birth, You have a good name.
Death is the destiny of every man; the living should take this to heart.
What has life offer you,
The words of the Preacher, the son of David, king in Jerusalem.
Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity.
What does man gain by all the toil at which he toils under the sun?
A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains for ever.
The sun rises and the sun goes down, and hastens to the place where it rises.
The wind blows to the south, and goes round to the north; round and round goes the wind, and on its circuits the wind returns.
In Isaiah 49:vs24-26
24- Can the prey be taken from the mighty, or the captives of a tyrant be rescued?
25- Surely, thus says the LORD: "Even the captives of the mighty shall be taken, and the prey of the tyrant be rescued, for I will contend with those who contend with you, and I will save your children.
26 I will make your oppressors eat their own flesh, and they shall be drunk with their own blood as with wine. Then all flesh shall know that I am the LORD your Savior, and your Redeemer, the Mighty One of Jacob.
I know that whatever God does endures for ever; nothing can be added to it, nor anything taken from it; God has made it so, in order that men should fear before him.
Tope ! thank God, your mid night has come sleep nicely in the LORD.
Love you till will meet again.
Dear Bro Tope, your smile shall forever glow in the lives of those you met. You had such a presence in the short time I got to know you. May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen. You'll be missed.
We met at Uncle Israel's, and you were always a very big character. Nobody would ever be unaware you were around. Didn't know you that well, but I did know you were larger, much larger than life. That must be why it just couldn't hold on to you...
Rest well in our Lord, Jesus Christ - Amen.
Life is a mistery which no man can understand how deep it is. I lost Daddy [Mr Olagoke Ibunkun Kila] when i most needed him in my life. and now you left me when i most need you too. You have always beeng a great and loving brother. words cannot just express how mush i'll miss you because now i feel so lonely without you arround. No one has cared for me as mush as u have done wiyhin the family.
Rest in peace in the bossom of the Lord. I LOVE YOU
So unfortunate i am to have lost you when our brotherhood was getting stronger. my heart shall forever grief for your demise. Oh!!!!!!! You meant alot to me and everything you were. I love you brother but GOD loves you more. Rest in peace in the bossom of The Lord.
My dearest Brother. I still can't feel no pain and I don't know why at your supposed passing. i have been wanting to cry for the last few days but tears as eluded me. Is this because i still harbour the believe that I would come back and would meet and gist about all that happened in Nigeria and I would scold you as usual as to what you haven't done yet and encourage ourselves on what needs to be done.
Tope, our plan was to meet on my return for you to know my new place and for me to know yours and a million of other things that brothers talk about. I wasn't meant to come back to bury you, where would i now run to as my place of refuge in the troubled times ahead. My brother, my little big brother, how come I can't protect you from this one. I guess God knows best and this is Final and you can now finally rest, the race is over.
My dear little brother, I'm back now and if you can read this, Nigeria is not fine, it's all upside down, all your mothers are thrashing themselves at your passing. Are you really gone?
GONE TOO SOON! MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE
For the short time i met you, it was fun, joy and laughter. May you rest in perfect peace and May the good Lord comfort your family.
The Lord taketh away a good man ahead of evil days!
May the good Lord bless your soul & grant you eternal rest until the resurrection morning when we shall meet to part no more.
Baba Topsy,
You were such a joy to be with,a compassionate and decent person that is now no more!We do take solace in the fact that you gave this life your best shot--you were kind ,loving and fun to be with.We fervently believe that you are now resting in the bossom of our Heavenly Father.
We will miss you indeed.Adieu Topsy!
Joan& Sola Ladenegan
We the Kator family wish to share our joy in knowing you. You are one of a kind who has shown your true qualities in people relationships. Our family invited tyou to a family function far away in short notice , you did not let distance or means be a stubling block, you made it there. We appreciate your daily thoughts and wisdom sayings. May the Almighty God continue to strengthen your family and may you rest in perfect peace.
Even when my brothers left me out in the rain you gave me shelter and when people close to me abandoned me you were there for me, inspite of everything you cared for me,
i promised to pay back all the good you had done for me and now you had gone so soon, i pray that God will receive your kind and generous soul in perfect peace till we meet again.
Dearest Unc. Tope,You are and still wld be d sweetest unc. even though d distance was a barrier, but you still tried and we do chat on facebook. You are so nice and thank God you did touch lives all through your stay. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. We love you. Mum, dad and Seun......."THE ADEWOLUs"
Topsy, words cannot express my feelings since your departure. i'm still in shock, but my compensation is that you are resting from this wicked world. your life was full of colours, you had hopes and dreams you even instilled belief in people's life. your heart was so large.you were a source of joy to everyone around, you carried so much weight and you still function normally, even when the road was rough you stood like a warrior.
I am very proud to have you as a brother and no one can replace you, .
I have had sleepless nights wandering about what happened that night. but God almighty know. we are trying to be strong. mum misses u so much, once again i'm proud to call you my brother. you will be missed forever.
funke Ayadi
last time i saw uncle T was at peckham buying meat. I had his voice just behind me pricing meat and i said unlce T is that really you pricing like a woman, he replied ( a ti wa se) man has got to eat aburo.
myself, my husband and children can't just get over his death.
we log on everyday to read all the good comment and to find out if he has wake up from his sleep.
I don't know aunty Funke and aunty Dupe but my husband does, just want to say OKE family are thinking about you and his 2children.
I am still in shock, as Good people are meant to live longer. If I say we will miss you is understatement because you in replaceable as brother, cousin,father. I am happy that naming my daughter after you will help me to cope as I can't stop crying even as I am typing this message.
Each time my late mother Alice Bolanle Oyewole JP visit London, the first person she ask for is you where is my Tope and next comment is why can I just be like you because you always spend quality time with everyboby. As they said you the kind of Son every mother wishes.
Egbon, thanks for teaching me the true meaning of a brother as I am hurting and really sorry I took you for granted. I never believe this will happen.
Words are hard to describe feelings,
I have always been better with images.
Yet writing down how much I miss you.
Seems to give me more tranquility.
Writing to let go, to give this all a place.
It will never heal, it will never go away,
But just learning to give it time and space.
I can tell you how much I care, how much I would give to have you back in our lifes,
But you know all of this and it won't change anything, that's what I am learning within time,
Writing to tell you how much I have learned, to show you that through fragility I become a stronger person.
More able to understand, more able to listen and to care,
Hurt through loss, I've become yet a wiser person.
Egbon mi RIP
O God, find Temitope Kila!
He is lost
In the valley of he dead,
and he cannot see his way out.
We his friends leave baskets of balm
at his feet,
but he cannot bend to touch
the healing
to his heart.
We call him to leave
this valley,
but he cannot follow
the faint sound
of our voices.
We sing our songs
of love,
but the words fade
and vanish in the wind.
We knock,
but he cannot find the door.
We shout to him,
but he cannot find the voice
to answer.
O God, find Temitope Kila!
Come into this valley
and find him!
Bring me out of this land
O you to whom he belong,
find him!
He will wait here,
for you have never failed
to come to him.
He will wait here,
for you have always been faithful.
He will wait here,
for you are his God,
and you have promised
that you counted the hairs on his head.
Dear bro,its like a dream and just want to share with you what Pastor Itua preached today that some people say the earth is a patient one and when it's was asked why,he said everything would go back to the earth.Everything in life is made from the soil and it will go back to the soil.no wonder you love to talk and call people because u knew you were going back to the soil.On your bday,when i called i could hear someone praying for you and you were saying amen not knowing you had few more days to share with us.i now realise when my pastor say "when we are celebrating our bday,we are counting down to the grave".It is a very very sudden kind of death that i have nevered heard before,no sickness ,stress or even a cold.The only consolation i have is that you knew God and served God to the last hour.I now understand the adage that says you dont appreciate a thing ontill you lose it.I love you and pray our families ,friends would not see such kind of early death again.We would not bury our Children.I just thank almighty God for Mummy k cause of her faith in God.Your children would be great and do exploit in Jesus Name.You were always there for me.My children are still praying for you to wake up but i believe you are alive in the Lord.Ijoba orun,ere onigbagbo.I love you and i miss you dearly Adieu. Yetunde Akinsola
Adieu Tope, I share this sad loss more for his children, sibling & elderly mum. I pray God grants them the courage to bear this sad loss. And aslo pray for "HIS Grace" to keep the family strong after Tope was gone* Tope, you gave life your very best, left everyone wondering why should you depart so early - The only consolation is that it's the sure testimony of our ominipotent God who knows best. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace at the bosom of our Lord! 2 Timothy 4:7 - You have fought the good fight. you have completed the race. You have kept the faith [you*]
Dear bro, words cannot say how shocked i was to hear you had gone to be with the Lord. I am however consoled knowing you are at the bossom of the most High.Indeed you have fought the good fight, may the Lord crown your efforts. The last i saw of you was a scene you acted in the Mount Zion movie and i said to my husband , uncle is here and i have to look for him , but somehow i couldnt look for you, but i thank God that you were His friend. I don't know what state of heart aunty Bola will be now but i know my God will comfort her. May God keep your children and may He do that which only Him can do in their lives. The Bible says, ``...say to the righteous that his children shall be mighty``, i know the word of God will find expression in the lives of your children. Bye uncle. Oluseyi Latinwo
It's sad moment. O lord if there is human behind the death of our beloved brother father make move and judge rest in peace. Wale Akapo.
I can’t believe you’re gone. At times I still wake up and wish it was all a dream. I remember every Sunday unfailingly you would come over to our house and ask me to make you some pounded yam, and then sleep off on the pull-up chair. At times I get home from church and wait for you to knock on the door only you don’t. May your soul rest in perfect peace.
May your soul rest in peace Adieu! Adieu!! Adieu!!!
There is nothing to compare the joy that We know that surely we are going to meet again.All the people who know you collectively are all saying the same things about your good nature.Sleep well in the bosom of our Father.We love you but God loves you best.
Had I known that conversation we had on thursday would be the last, i would have stayed on the phone for hours! Being your ever grateful and jovial self, you called yet again to say thank you for what I considered an insignificant gift. Your words of encouragement and motivation always came ,unsolicited,at the right time. I am yet to come to terms with your sudden departure. I pray God gives Funke,Sis Dupe and above all, your precious Mum the grace to pull through these trying times. I feel highly privileged to have known you. Rest in peace, my beloved brother.
Mr Abiodun & Iyabo Peters
Baba Topsy
May you continue to rest in perfect peace until we meet again. We love you but, God loves you most. You will be greatly missed.
Today is not like yesterday you always woke me up in the morning with phone calls asking how am fairing, solving my problems if any, castigating me when totally wrong and still draw me back stating why you were crossed.TEMI, you were a shinning star no doubt , a problem solver and above all ,you lived with the fear of God.I only hope i can cope with your absence cos i have lost a Brother, cousin, friend and a Confidant..May your soul rest in perfect peace.Rest in Peace FRANK TEMI...
Temi, it was nice knowing you and working with you. Though your death was sudden but I am glad to hear you were at a night vigil to praise and worship the Lord before joining Him. May your gentle soul rest in peace.
Tope your departure was so sudden, one can not but ask questions that no one have answers to. The only consolation now is the various testimonies, it gladdens my heart to hear that you were in night virgil the Friday before departing to meet the Lord. May your soul rest in Peace and may all your loved ones be comforted, may Jesus be there for your mother, your children and your sisters.
Tope, Our Beloved
We adore you, We love you. But our lord loves you more; He did infact take you to, his kingdom while you were on your knee "praying"
Your approach to life have always been encouraging and inspirational, your angelic voice shows who you are.
P.S my Mum wil miss your phone calls
Rest In Peace .......................Gengtle giant
Tope we celebrate the well life you spent on earth, you will be remembered always. I love you but God loves you BEST. SO LONG
T - TOP OF THE WORLD AND THE WORD
O - ONE IN A MILLION
P - POLITE AND POSITIVE AT ALL TIMES
E -ENCOURAGING AND ENTHUSIASTIC
I KNEW TOPE A WHILE AGO BEFORE I STARTED GOING TO THE NEW COVENANT CHURCH. THE FIRST TIME I MET HIM WAS AT A FRIENDS GATHERING. I WAS VERY DOWN BUT HIS WORDS LIFTED MY SPIRIT. THIS MEAN'T THE WORLD TO ME. I HAVE NEVER KNOWN ANY ONE SO GENUINE, CARING AND FULL OF LIFE. IT WAS A DELIGHT TO LEARN THAT HE WAS A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN. THANK GOD FOR A LIFE SO FULFILLED. TO GOD BE THE GLORY. YOUR DISTANT SMILE WILL BE MISSED. TOPE REST IN PERFECT PEACE.
LIFE IS A MISTRY A JOURNEY WE CAN NEVER FINISH BECAUSE OUR LORD JESUS HAVE COMPLETED IT AND HAVE NOW GONE TO THE FATHER TO PREPARE A PLACE FOR US . THANK GOD FOR JESUS THANK GOD YOUR LAST TIME ON EARTH WAS IN THE HOUSE OF GOD.THANK GOD FOR THE PRIVILEDGE AND OPPORTUNITY HE GRANTED YOU BY BLESSING YOU WITH A LOVING CARING FAMILY AND A SISTER AND BROTHER IN LAW THAT IS WORTH MORE THAN MONEY CAN PURCHASE OR REPLACE. THANK GOD FOR A FRUITFUL AND FULFILLED. LIFE . TO KNOW THAT CHRIST DIED FOR US IS A VALUABLE TREASURE. YOU ARE NOW A NEW CREATION NO LONGER IN CONDENMNATION BECAUSE IN HIS GRACE YOU NOW STAND. REST IN PERFECT PEACE TEMITOPE IN JESUS NAME AMEN.
A Prayer For Temitope Oladele Kila
God our Father,
Your power brings us to birth,
Your providence guides our lives,
and by Your command we return to dust.
Lord, those who die still live in Your presence,
their lives change but do not end.
I pray in hope for Temitope's family,
relatives and friends,
and for all the dead known to You alone.
In company with Christ,
Who died and now lives,
may they rejoice in Your kingdom,
where all our tears are wiped away.
Unite us together again in one family,
to sing Your praise forever and ever.
Amen.
Rest in Peace
Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep ( Captioned To Katherine Jenkins Voice )
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace..may the lord keep the family u left behinde.
DEAR BROTHER 'TOPE' WORDS ARE INEADEQUATE TO DESCRIBE THE SHOCK AND PAIN OF YOUR SUDDEN AND UNTIMELY DEATH:
GOD KNOWS THAT THE VACUUM YOUR DEATH HAS LEFT IN MY LIFE ,CAN NEVER BE FILLED BECAUSE NO ONE CAN EQUATE YOUR WARMTH,EBULLIENCE AND EFFERVESTENCE.
YOU WERE A GEM.
YOU WERE AN ICON.
YOU WERE AN EMBODIMENT OF A GOOD BROTHER.
YOU WERE ALWAYS BUBBLING WITH LIFE .
YOU WERE A FRIEND AND A BROTHER INDEED.
MY CONSOLATION LIES IN THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE FOUGHT THE GOOD FIGHT,AND BY GOD'S GRACE THE CROWN OF GLORY IS YOUR PORTION ETERNALLY .
REST IN THE BOSOM OF GOD: BROTHER 'TEE' AS I NORMALLY CALLED YOU, MAY YOUR GENTLE SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE.
ADIEU, GOODNIGHT - BROTHER .
may your soul rest in perfect peace.
Omo ogun ilogbo, omo oya orun re, o.
femi from spain
14 years agomay you continue to rest in perfect untill we meet again , we love you but god loves you most you will be greatly missed