This has been a hard couple of weeks....first your "angel birthday" on July 18th, then your 18th birthday, on August 8th. Aunt Dell and you celebrated the same birthday on 08/08. I bet she has found you in your heavenly home. I miss you everyday and talk to you every day. Keep sending me your Angel energy. Love you always............Gramie

kelly I miss you so much! It is amazing to me that you have been gone a year and this punk Zachiriah J Remmers is stiill out on a !000.00 bond and is stiil out there drinking .I guess because he thinks drinking on a lake isnt a crime either.I wish I could talk to you again and look in your beautiful blue eyes but that was taken away from me by someone who doesnt seem to care about the pain and tremendous lose that he has caused to our family. Hopefullt when this is over I wont be so angry but right now I am!!!!!!! I Love you baby I miss you everyday Mom

KELLY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I MISS YOU SO MUCH IT HAS BEEN A REALLY HARD YEAR WITH OUT YOU HERE YOU MEANED SO MUCH TO ME I WISH I COULD TAKE BACK TIMES SO YOU COULD STILL BE HERE I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BABY

michelle wahl

14 years ago

Thank you for remembering Kelly!!! So many other people didnt

Kelly, we had court again yesterday and its still not finished yet! I cant believe how screwed up the laws are in kansas for dwi manslaughter.This man is still out there smurking at all of us,not caring in the least that he has destroyed my family. Imiss you so much Kelly,it still doesnt seem real that you arent going to come walking thru the door anytime soon. I LOVE YOU BABY I will write you again soon when im in a better mood! Luv U So Much Mom

KAYLEE IS HERE AND I AM SO HAPPY I MISS YOU BABY GIRL I MISS HANGING OUT WITH YOU AND JUST THINK YOU WOULD BE AUNT AGAIN

hey babe, hey sorry i havent talked to u in a while , just wanted to stop in and let u know how much i miss u and love u lots baby . i know ur probaley in a better place and looking down on me and hope u r seeing lots of love down here love u girl take care much love from me crystal and my 3 kids now caleb,jordan,and kaylee paige ill be back on love u baby girl crystal

I just wanted to stop by and say that I miss you and that I love you. I have been talking to many people around me, telling them stories of your child hood, I didnt get to see you very much the past few years, you have always been missed and loved. I say prayers every night, asking God to hold you and that I miss you.

hello again kelly i love u soooo much u just dont even know i wish u were here now and forever cuz you are missed by so many people i wish u were here to hold kaylee when she is born but your mom will hold her for you and kiss her for you i love u and miss u soooo much words cant explain it

hey girl'' sorry i haven't been on here but i been busy,i miss you so much you just dont even know what you ment to me well on 10/27/08 i had an ultrasound and found out it was a baby girl i am carrying so therefor her name is kaylee anne and i want you to know i wouldn't have did that for anybody else i love you so much love you always and forever your sister Jessica Sanders

Halloween is coming I sure miss you, I remember some of your customs for Halloween. I would be nice for someone to post some pictures of you dressed up, I dont have any of them. I love you Kelly

Update: I come to this site with a deeply sadden heart today. A few things that have been on my mind and understanding. Maybe someone on here can help?First, We all lost Kelly just over 3 months ago in that accident. Why has NO one from Michelle's side of the family not shared anything with any of us here? NO Grandmothers,Grandfathers,Uncle's, Aunts, Ex Step Mothers, half sisters, NO one? None of these family memebers have posted pictures of Kelly either. I was't able to spend much time with Kelly over the past few years due to moves back and forth across the country. Debi and I have put a down payment on a beautiful glass niche memorial for Kelly's final resting place, We have made 3 payments waiting for the Life Insurance to pay for the rest of the Memorial, It seems as if Michelle doesn.t really want that for Kelly for some reason, and refuses to sign the paper work that has been waiting on her for 60 days now. So due to not having those funds, I had to cancel the glass Memorial to share with all of you, and now will keep Kelly's urn in my home safe with me for the time being, until the funds will be made ready my Michelle. I am sorry I am not able to share her with all of you. If anyone has the means to talk to Michelle, she will not answer my phone calls now. I would like to place Kelly where she deserves in her own Memorial. I need to hear from any one in this matter, I feel alone with this, and don't really know where to go from here.

Michelle

15 years ago

In responce to kellys fathers blog titled "kellys final resting place," I feel with what was said I need to enlighten everyone both sides of the story. First and foremost all this is nonsense, Greg fails to mention that he has the means with in his family or his self to take care of all of this, if this was really the issue at hand. "We all lost Kelly just over 3 months ago in that accident. Why has NO one from Michelle's side of the family not shared anything with any of us here?" Are you serious... ask your self when the last time you saw her, called her, talked to her, hugged her, even told her you loved her. As I recall when the girls called you to wish you a merry christmas they were told the only reason they were calling was because they wanted something. As for all the other aspects pertaining to this ... Kelly deserves better than blogs about irrevelent matters. I cant even begin to put in to words how im feeling or better yet sit on here trying to make my case, its hard to deal with and we all deal in different ways- how can you question that i dont want Kelly to be resting peacefully if anything i just want justice for her. There are many other legal matters but i feel most of this is inappropriate for her tribute site- which is why i wont respond again. I Love you baby girl Mom

Michelle

15 years ago

In responce to kellys fathers blog titled "kellys final resting place," I feel with what was said I need to enlighten everyone both sides of the story. First and foremost all this is nonsense, Greg fails to mention that he has the means with in his family or his self to take care of all of this, if this was really the issue at hand. "We all lost Kelly just over 3 months ago in that accident. Why has NO one from Michelle's side of the family not shared anything with any of us here?" Are you serious... ask your self when the last time you saw her, called her, talked to her, hugged her, even told her you loved her. As I recall when the girls called you to wish you a merry christmas they were told the only reason they were calling was because they wanted something. As for all the other aspects pertaining to this ... Kelly deserves better than blogs about irrevelent matters. I cant even begin to put in to words how im feeling or better yet sit on here trying to make my case, its hard to deal with and we all deal in different ways- how can you question that i dont want Kelly to be resting peacefully if anything i just want justice for her. There are many other legal matters but i feel most of this is inappropriate for her tribute site- which is why i wont respond again. I Love you baby girl Mom

Michelle

15 years ago

In responce to kellys fathers blog titled "kellys final resting place," I feel with what was said I need to enlighten everyone both sides of the story. First and foremost all this is nonsense, Greg fails to mention that he has the means with in his family or his self to take care of all of this, if this was really the issue at hand. "We all lost Kelly just over 3 months ago in that accident. Why has NO one from Michelle's side of the family not shared anything with any of us here?" Are you serious... ask your self when the last time you saw her, called her, talked to her, hugged her, even told her you loved her. As I recall when the girls called you to wish you a merry christmas they were told the only reason they were calling was because they wanted something. As for all the other aspects pertaining to this ... Kelly deserves better than blogs about irrevelent matters. I cant even begin to put in to words how im feeling or better yet sit on here trying to make my case, its hard to deal with and we all deal in different ways- how can you question that i dont want Kelly to be resting peacefully if anything i just want justice for her. There are many other legal matters but i feel most of this is inappropriate for her tribute site- which is why i wont respond again. I Love you baby girl Mom

I had dinner with your Grandmother lastnight, It was 10 years ago that Nana had left us. I know she is with you now, Your Grandmother Jackie, Debi and I talked about You and Nana, remembering some very good times that we shared together of you and Nana. We cant help but wonder what wonderful times you are having in heaven with Nana, Are you walking on the streets of gold? Are you lying in green grass with a white horse at your side? Do you share the beautiful sunsets that we have down here? I think of you often,and miss you terribly.

Hey Kelly i love you and still miss you

Hey kelly i know u probley remember me. i remember the last time i seen u it was when u came in to my work with a friend of yours its crazy just to think i seen u a few weeks ago and now your gone i miss u soo much i know we havent hung out for a long time but i still miss u and i will always remember what a great kid u were. and still are i hope u can read all the nice things ppl say about u. cant belive your not with us anymore its hard to think about but i wanna let u know that if there was one thing i could do right now it would be to bring u back to your family i love you lots Dana

Its yet another rainy day, but yet all i have to do is think of you and the sun comes out! Kelly, sweetheart there is not a day that goes by where I see something that reminds me of you........... I miss you! I love you so very much! uncle Rick

I've been spending a lot of time with your dad and Debi. Everytime i go to their house i feel like you're there watching over them. It makes me think of the last time i spoke to you. You called me and we talked for hours and planned to meet up. But i can't think of things like that anymore only because it makes me sad. I get sad because I wish i could tell you how special you were to me even though we didn't see much of eachother in the past few years. I love you Kelly and i think about you every single day hun. Happy late birthday suagr.

As everyone here wished you a Happy Birthday my dear, two of your sisters had theirs as well, Brandlyn and Sarah. You are enjoying the party of the ages in heaven, while those of us here are finding it so very hard to move on in our lives with out hearing and seeing you. You are in my prayers and thougths daily. I so loved you kelly. Another friend of the family, the father of one of the young men thats plays Football for MNU passed away on Tuesday at a young age of 49, And i know the heart ache that Mike is feeling while his team gets ready to open their football season on Saturday in Olathe. He is feeling the loss of his Father. We all share the loss of love ones around us, but as a father i thought i would never feel the loss of a child. The Teddy Bear that you had brought to me while i was ICU after the heart attack is still on my bathroom counter. I see it and it also reminds me of your kind thoughts daily. We all miss you Kelly.

Hi Baby, Its been a while sorry. I miss u so very much. i miss our long talks, and hanging out with you. Sometimes u could turn the worst situations into what felt like nothing, (like it would just go away.) I miss everything about you.The good, and the bad. I would trade all the good for all the bad if it would just bring you back to me, even if only for a short time. mom called me a few weeks ago to give me your message, and thank-you for sending it. I know ur watching over me thankyou. Tell grandma, and grandpa parsons i miss them to, and love them both very much K. Kelly, you were, and still are 1 of the best things in my life thank-you so much for being a part of me. I love you so very much, and miss u something terrible, but it helps for me to still talk to you all the time. You are 4-ever in my heart!!!!! Hope you had a wonderful birthday up there Dancing on streets of gold, you'll never find a better party. ENJOY. I love you 4-ever Aunt J.

i may get to find out next doc appt if this baby is a girl and hoping it is so i can name her after a beautyful girl like you

Happy 17th birthday i love you so much and so does your mom i am naming the baby after you if it happends to be a girl and your mom says she know it is a girl because you are watching me and know love you again xoxoxoxox Jessica Your Sissy and bestfriend

Happy birthday baby girl i will always love you and miss you and i talked to your mom today and she said happy birthday baby girl and spread your wings. i started to wear my hair the way you like me to do it up i am always thinking about you day and night. You will have a place in my heart you made me so happy while you was down here. Love Matt P.S. I miss you so much

Happy Birthday my dear, I have many private thoughts about your birthday's plus what would have been your 17th today. I know that you have a greandmother that would have baked you a cake like this one. All my love Me

It has been brought to my attention that many poeple have been trying to contact the Bank of America in order to contribute to Kelly's Mermorial Fund. When you call the Bank of America, you must tell them this account number. ( 518002283689 ) and that it is a business account. Thank you so much

I MISS U KELLY UR BFFE Jessica

This is one of her boyfriend (Michael Stone)'s friends, and I am shocked to hear that she passed away (on his birthday, no less!), especially since they were very happy together. My condolences go to him and Kelly's other great friends. But, she's in a better place now. Any pain she might have been going through at the time is now gone. And she's watching over us as we speak.

Kelly i will miss you so much. I am always thinking about you

RIP Kelly

today was a little better but the pain is still there and will be forever i miss u kelly i will never forget u love you 4 ever Your Sissy Jessica

How I met Kelly is she came into my pet store and asked if she could work because she needed another snake cuz she lost her boyfriends (Brandon Young) snake I told her i couldnt hire anyone cuz we just opened up and i needed to work . So she said cant I just come down and hang out while Brandon is at work so im not so bored...I said if you want and thats how she ended up with Maggie the ferrit and the turtle I sure do MISS YOU and i wish you were here .You helped me then and you are helping me now.I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU MISS KELLY AND SO DOES MAGGIE REAL BAD..I have your blue hat Dana found it by the computer..where you stuck it.. Jimmie says hi and he really misses you alot We love you like one of our daughters (all 6) HaHa thank you Kelly Anne you dont even no the impact you have done in my familys life Candy Cannaday From Candys Critters

Hey sweetie i know you probably think i did not like you, but i loved and cared about you so very much. I was just looking out for you dear. I always had your best intrest at heart. I know you felt lonely and you felt like no one cared about you, but the truth is you had all kinds of people who loved you and cared about you.of all different ages.I wish i would of had a chance to tell you how much i cared about you and how much i loved you, you were like a little sister to me. You, candace, and me go way back, your mom and my mom were best friends. We all might of lost contact once in a while, but we always got back in touch with one another one way or another. I just wish i could of seen you one last time and hugged you and gave a kiss on the cheeck. I also wish you could of meet the newest member of the family. Dalton Allan Raw he turned five months old this month. I know my daughter loved you and i know you loved her just as well.iI wish Dalton would of got a chance to love you like we all did. You were always really great with Trista Mae. Although you always loved kids and were always good with kids. You know you would of made a great mother one day. I wish you would of got a chance to experience that feeling let me tell you it is the most greatest feeling in the world. We are all going to miss you so very much. Im sorry i was hard on you at times, but it is just the mother in me, you just see things different when you are a mom. I just loved you and i wanted you to have the best of things in life. You were really lucky to have such a good friend like jessica true friendship comes very rarely, but im glad you were one of the lucky ones who had a true friend like that. We will all miss you so very much. WE LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER BABY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ashlee, Johnathon, trista, and Dalton Raw R. I. P. SWEETIE Im just glad to know that you have finally found peace and that you are happy now. IT IS YOUR TIME TO SHINE BABY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

today i cried and thought of you and didn't think i could make it threw it but i did it for you baby girl i hope u watch me threw my pregnacy and help make my baby a girl so i can name her after u

I didnt think i was going to make it through the entire service for you. Kelly my love, the room was filled with everyone that loved you . I hope that when you looked down you were proud of what you saw. Many people came up to me and your mother telling us how wonderful you had been to them and how they missed and loved you. I meet your friend Sarah and Jessica, they loved you like your own sister, Sarah sat and talked to you while I hold her hand. I did meet many of your friends,and honey they told me that YOU are their best friend. I meet Matt, and he seemed to be a very nice young man, and could see why he was your boyfriend. Your little brother is going to miss you also. Your Mother took you and is holding you tight tonight, for this is the frist time since you have been gone that you have been back home. When you was taken from me a week ago, you took a part of me with you, and you left a part of you behind with me. I will always cherish the part you left to me. I love you my dear Kelly, my Squiggy

I walked in the rain lastnight, trying to clear my thoughts knowing today would be one of the hardest things that i have ever had to do. One of 2 memorial services will be tonight at 5:00pm. It has been a week from the time that everyone has lost you down here on earth. Candace came by yesterday and helped me find your newest photos that you had taken of yourself and i have placed them here. It is very hard to share you but there are so many that loved you so and wants to see you, Your eyes are of the bluest of blue, all of us here have seen them many times and what a honor it was for me to have been one of the first ones in your short life to view your gentle soul through them. There are many family members in town this day, ones you have not seen for some time now, The number on lives that you have touched and not known is amazing. Your love for lizards, and the 2 that you have now i was able to see them the other day at your mothers house. And it even seemed as if they missed you too. WIth your love of Rock concerts you will have a front line seat to any that you desire now, including the ones in Heaven for I know how much you enjoyed Elvis. I know that there is a great big party going on in Heaven for you, and for all us down here, We can only be jealous, For i also know that there was many times that you had felt left out. My little girl I loved you so ,and the missing will never,ever go away nor be replaced. I will be joining you soon in heaven in only a blank of a eye when to comes to time in Heaven, here on earth will seem like an eternity before i see you again. I love you my dear and it has been my honor to have been picked by GOD to be your father. I love you, Me