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Pauline Cleeton
9 years ago

Today 6 years ago you left us when we weren't ready. You are in our thoughts every day. Love and miss you Mom xxx

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Anonymous
9 years ago

Today 6 years ago you left us, we all miss you so much you are in our thoughts everyday. Love you Mommy xxx

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Pauline Cleeton
13 years ago

Today for some reason I really miss you and dad, i just feel so sad!! When you just need someone to talk to, there is no one to hear my complaint and not taking sides. I will never know why you left us so early you were so young. I really miss you. i love you always. Pauline xx

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Shirleen Petrak
14 years ago

It seems like just yesterday we were sitting around the diningroom table complaining or laughing. What I would give to have those times back again, there is no one to talk to or anyone that understands me the way you did. Your boys miss you so much....they have needed the love and support that only you knew how to give.....We will always love and miss you mommy, every day! Forever yours Shirleen

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Shirleen Petrak
14 years ago

It has been 18 months since you left us......I can't tell you how much I miss you and need you......I keep wanting to pick up the phone every time something happens...I miss seeing you and talking to you every day, I know how unhappy and sad you were without Dad but my selfishness wishes I could have you back. I know you are resting well in the Lords arms......We will always love and miss you Mom!! My love always Shirleen

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Shirleen Petrak
14 years ago

We would have celebrated your birthday on the 5th. It is still so unbearable withou you....No day passes without you being a part of it. Happy Birthday Mommy!!! We know you are at peace, sleep gently our angel. Forever Yours Shirleen

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Pauline Cleeton
14 years ago

Happy Birthday dear Mom, I really miss you it's been a sad day I have been thinking about you all day. Always in my thoughts first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Love you Mom Pauline xx

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Joleen Greyling
14 years ago

Today is your 65th Birhday and you are not here for us to spoil you. Love and miss you everyday Love Your Brat x x x

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Pauline Cleeton
14 years ago

One year and one month since you slipped away from us and I miss you more as each day goes by, none of us were ready for the pain, how do we all move on.......? Love and miss you forever mommy Pauline xxx

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Shirleen Petrak
14 years ago

One long year without you, it is still so hard to accept that you are not a phone call away! It has been a very difficult year, made that much worse without your advise, guidance and strength! You always had a way of straightening things out or making me feel better or stronger. You used to say that I was your right hand, you just never realised you were everything else, I was just a little hand! We love and miss you every single day, you are everywhere in our home! Rest in peace Your loving daughter Shirleen

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Joleen Greyling
14 years ago

One year today you left us and it still seems so unreal, I still want to pick the phone up and speak to you. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you or need your advice on something. Rest in peace my mommy. Love and miss you always Joleen x x x x

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Pauline Cleeton
14 years ago

One year today Mommy and I really miss you, the pain is still the same as that first day. Life has never been the same since you left us. I will always miss you and love you for ever. Hope you are resting in peace mom. You were our rose. All my love xxx

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Pauline Cleeton
14 years ago

Mom it was two years since dad left us, and will be your one year next month, what I wouldn't give to hear your voice on the phone right now. I miss you so much, sometimes I just don't know how to deal with the pain. Love you always. Pauline x

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Pauline Cleeton
15 years ago

Tomorrow it will be nine months since you left us and the hurt hasn't gone away, it has got worse, the reality has started to set in. I just can't cope! There is no one to talk to, is it possible that it has got harder over the nine? The whole family is drifting apart you were the glue who held us together, what has happened to all of us? I miss you more and more mommy. Love you always Pauline xx

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Pauline Cleeton
15 years ago

I miss today as if it were the first, I hope you are at peace. We miss you everyday more and more, when will the hurt ever go away, you were taken so suddely none of us were ready, we miss you deeply mommy. your loving daugher Pauline xx

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Pauline Cleeton
15 years ago

I have stayed away from your tribute site as it is too painful to read, but every now and then I'll have a look and it makes me sad, I have tried to hide the pain, I need you still mom. All my love Pauline

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Ivan Drago
15 years ago

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Shirleen Petrak
15 years ago

We still have not learned to cope without you!! Six months have gone by and it still seems so unreal! Trying to get the christmas baking done is very sad, we always baked together.....usually complaining about the heat!! We love and will always miss you Your everloving daughter Shirleen

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

Today I am turning 25 and I won't be getting my birthday sms from you or card coming through the post. I know you and Daddy will be with me today in spirit. Love and Miss you always Mom The Baby xx

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Anonymous
15 years ago

Please accept my deepest sympathies. I lost my mother in 2004,-and I still miss her,-so now when I look up at night and see the stars,I look for the brightest and think of her.

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Pauline Cleeton
15 years ago

I am having a very bad day today, I have written something twice and lost it, we are not coping with your sudden death, we are all pretending to be happy you are resting and are with Daddy, but alone in the dark we have our moments, I waited for my birthday message from you on Tuesday but it never came it is still so unbelievable that you are gone. You were taken far to soon after daddy died, we haven't taken it all in and had time to adjust. All our hearts are breaking, we miss you and Daddy more than you's would have ever known. We love you and miss you unbelievably. All my love forever Pauline xx

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Shirleen Petrak
15 years ago

Today is two months since you lay down and peacefully went to be with Daddy. Everyone says "it gets easier with time", I have not been able to find any of the peace or acceptance!!! I miss you!! Love you Always!!! Forever in my thoughts Your daughter Shirleen

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Shirleen Petrak
15 years ago

I just needed to let you know that I, we, miss you more than you will ever know!!! We will love you always and never forget you! I know you are at peace, it is us that have not found peace yet. You were much too young, you still had so much to do!! I miss you mom, I feel so lost without you, you did everything with me, now it is only I!! Forever in my heart Shirleen

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
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Shirleen Petrak
15 years ago

It is one month today since you left us, I know, you know, the terrible heartache and sadness that we feel. The house has lost all its love, light and happiness since you left. We all keep saying we are happy you and Daddy are together again but those are only words, we would give anything to have you both back! To lose both of you in such a short time has been too much to bear. You were unforgettable and you will remain the brightest star in my life! I will always love you and cherish all the memories we had together!! It is not possible to think of one day without you being in it! Forever with us Never forgotten Your everloving kid

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Spiritshine
15 years ago

I wanted to say what a lovely tribute you have made for your mom. I too Lost my mother 3 months ago. I will pray for you and your family during this sad time.

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

My Darling Mommy What do we do without you? I cannot bear the terrible heartache, the deep sadness and the feeling of being totally alone. You were part of my every day life, I could not imagine a single day without you!! Now, l am alone!! You have taken so much of me with you, I would never have imagined it were possible to feel this way. You were my "complaints department" and "advice column", my stable rock. You reminded me, every day, of our humility in this world and your incredible faith in mankind. Your forgiveness through all your heartache and your faith in our Lord! Mommy you were away too long before you finally came home, then we had no time to catch up. I know you yearned to be with Daddy, not a day went by that you did not miss him, the two of you were inseperable. I take comfort in knowing that you are together again, Darby and Joan! I will never stop loving or missing you Mom. Your light on earth has gone out but you will shine forever for us in heaven! Your ever loving daughter Shirleen, Christian, Damian and Aydon

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

Mommy I could never have imagined how hard losing you would be. I feel sad, relieved and angry all at the same time and i’m not sure what i’m supposed to do with all of that. I’m sad because you’re not here with us anymore, I’m relieved because you are not battling or suffering anymore and you are with Daddy, I know that is where you longed to be. I’m a little angry because you left me when I still needed you but I will try and take comfort in knowing you and Daddy are together now watching over us. Love you always Mommy Your Brat x

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Colleen123
15 years ago

Mom I miss you so, I check my phone every now and then and there is no sms from you, now there is no contact at all. We had our up's and down's but we knew we loved one another, even although at times it did not seem that way. Why did you have to go?. Danielle and I were looking forward to seeing you again on that Friday, we did not expect to have to say Goodbye to you instead. I will cherish the time I had with you, I will remember the good times, and hope that the pain and sadness I feel inside will fade as time goes on. I know that you are with Daddy now, and that you are happy. I just wish I got to say Goodbye. We love you Mom. Love Collee, Richard and Danielle.

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Pauline Cleeton
15 years ago

Mommy you haven't been gone that long, and i keep reaching for the phone to call you, but you are not there for your advice and your comforting wordou fores. We are all left with this complete emptiness that i can't explain. You were taken before we were ready, even though we are all grown up we still need you, I miss you terribly. I will love you forever. Your daughter Pauline xx

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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Pauline Cleeton
15 years ago

the last time I ever held my mother, the day I left to fly back to the UK after my dad's funeral.

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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15 years ago

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Joleen Greyling
15 years ago

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