Alan was one of the best people I knew. Always happy, he had a huge heart, and was always wanting to help others... Alan was always in the search of true love. And he had all the qualities and great things that would make a great partner. He truly was an incredible man. I spent the month of September going out with him and browsing the stores in Kansas :) We were roomates and very good friends in Fort Huachuca Arizona, and here in Kansas City, he came and visit a couple of times. Becuase he would never let a friendship die due to distance. He was always there to love and support anyone who was his friend. The day I graduated from college, my graduation became a big event, when he walked in the graduation ceremony as a surprise...that was very special to me, very....and that was just the way he was...always showing his love for others and his friends. He told me he was so proud of me, and that will always remain in my heart. That same weekend, we went to Miami to celebrate my graduation....we had a great time. Out of the blue, he bought his ticket and without thinking it twice, he decided to be with me and celebrate that important event in my life. Alan, I will always have you in my heart ...and like many others, I will always love you...

Alan..what a sad and tragic waste....am feeling very sad angry and helpless right now...I can still remember your voice and that smile...a truely beatiful man and how lucky I was to know you even briefly

When I heard of your death my heart dropped. You were a strong member of the community and a devoted soldier to our country. You were also adored by many. Your story is inspirational and it will live on forever.