Paul Maloney Tribute

Memories of Paul Maloney (31)

"Over here Uupid"

Added Aug 13, 2008 By Doris Maloney

One time at Lac Cayamant Paul decided to leave. We watched him walk out the laneway and hide behind a tree. We then decided we would pretend to look for him . We walked out the laneway and turned the opposite direction to where he was hiding. After he watched us go for a bit, he called out " Over her Uupid" He wasn't able to pronounce "stupid". We then made a big fuss about having found Paul.

A long time coming

Added Aug 12, 2008 By Karen

Sitting with Paul at the last thanksgiving, and talking about the price of gold. I remember driving up in his 4 by 4 a ski slope which he use to ski down as a kid and thinking “ there is no way I would do this”. You know, Paul is a brave man. He made sure everything he did was complete and clean. And the little laugh out of the corner of his mouth, he would say “you think I should do this” and then he would just step on the gas. He would laugh. And this is a steep hill. I was worried. And then I realized something…I knew Paul was doing what he wanted to do. Nobody was going to pull him from it. Paul was going to drive up that hill. Whether we were with him or not. And we should (we will) always look up.

Another angel has gone before us

Added Aug 11, 2008 By zsuzsi.susan

I am so sorry for your loss and may his spirit be the brightness of everyday for you. Benn's Mom Susan

"Here Me Am"

Added Aug 9, 2008 By Dad

When Paul was just a little guy about 5 years old; the whole family used to go picking berries , in a field ,up on the hill ,in Lac Camament.. We were all involved in the berry picking and I looked around and Paul was not to be seen. I remember being concerned and calling out, "Where is Paul?" Then I saw his litle arm raising up as I heard him say:" Here me am." Today when I ask Paul to be with me, it is like I can still him saying: "Here me am." Dad

" I Can Help"

Added Aug 5, 2008 By Dad

When Paul was a very little guy he always wanted to be involved in all the family activites. He often wanted to be with me. I remember at Lac Cayament; I had a very ,very big elm tree cut down ,as it was dying . The tree had just fallen and I saw Paul {about 4yrs old} coming out of the cottage with a small little toy saw in his hand and he immediately began to help saw up the tree.Over the years you have always been there to help me if I ever need it .Today,although you are gone,I still call on you to help me when I need to and I feel you are always there., Much love Dad

I pray for you and to you.

Added Aug 1, 2008 By Dad

Over the years we have had together, my mind is flooded with wonderful memories of our life togethr. You have been God's precious gift to me always and I know that always will be.I have always loved you and will forever. I have been so proud of you ever since you were a litle guy. When you first left us I could not spend much time on those memories as it hurt too much knowing that I will never be with you again. As time goes on I realize you are with me in your spirit and every day I pray for you and I also pray to you.I take comfort in knowing that your beautiful spirit is an extension of the loving, caring, compassionate, intellegent, jovial and wise little person you used to be with us. You were a good boy,a good teenager and good man.

Paul soaring on Mt .Ste. Anne..

Added Jul 24, 2008 By Dad

I stood at the top of the mountain and watched you go down as I have done so many times in the past. I could feel your love for the mountain. You loved the speed and with your well deleloped techniques could handle it with ease. When you picked up speed maintaining full control you would spread your arms and I seeming soar as a seagul does here in Gaspe .You loved the air on your face and body and the challenge of the mountain. I often stood in awe and had admiration and pride for my son. My heart aches with pain when I know I will never do that with you again. But what a powerful memory.!!!! It stayed with me this morning

Ski on the inside edge!

Added Jul 14, 2008 By Susie M

I loved skiing with Paul. He was always amazed at how well I skied considering I had no formal training. He would always tell me how good I was naturally and what a good technique I had naturally. He always said that I was the best skier of all his sisters! But that we should just keep that between the two of us!! It was our little secret.
He used to stop in the middel of the hill and show me the next tactic I should work on for my evolution. I can see him as clear as day bending down with his poles high up and his goggles on backwards. He was happy whne he was skiing

Hang Tough Little soldier

Added Jul 14, 2008 By Susie M

Paul always would say that to me whenever I was down. I wish I could call him these days

From Paul to me; a Xmas present

Added Jul 11, 2008 By m.ledoux

This week I found Paul's last Xmas present to me; A little plastified card called ''Celestial Seasonings" with a beautiful red St- Nicholas , a white Unicorn, distributing seasonings from a big basket . At the top, a message that I now cherish very much. '' Wonder...is the seed of knowledge '' - Francis Bacon.
I was very touched when I found this momento. Now that I know how Paul was so sensitive and thoughtful I wonder if this message had been chosen specially for me? I chose to think so and continue to '' wonder...'' in homage to him.
Marthe

The Jokester

Added Jun 18, 2008 By Erin Sullivan

It was after a dinner over this past Christmas/New Year's when Paul got into one of his joking around moods. My dad and step-mom had gone to bed, so it was just Paul, Kevin, Keri and myself hanging out. Our step-mom was so proud of the Christmas tree, which she would admire everyday. That evening, Paul got up, giggled, and took one of the tree ornaments and placed it on top of the TV. He then took another one and placed it on top of a window, and then he hung an ornament ball off the chandelier. Kevin quickly joined in and before we knew it, a bunch of the tree ornaments were scattered all over the house. Paul had the 4 of us laughing like little kids, and the laughs continued the next morning when our step-mom came down for her morning coffee.

Thanks for all the laughs and wonderful times Paul

The Valley

Added Jun 17, 2008 By Karen

I came across this song called the Valley this weekend written by Jane Siberry and sung below by KD Lang. It reminds how much Paul suffered. The part that touched me the most was:

I love the best of you
You love the best of me
Though it is not always easy
Lovely? lonely?



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMDMA6FqvXY

Karen

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