Memories of Deborah Jeane Palfrey (6)

The most painful of this is the possibility that she did not take her own life, but may have been killed because of who solictied her business. When are we going to unshame ourselves from sex enough that is OK for a politicain to seek pleasure outside of his (or her!) marriage? Then the madams can reclaim their rightful place as priestesses of pleasure, escorting worshipers into the presence of the Goddess (or God!)

She was not a criminal - those who enjoyed the riches her business offered, then stabbed her in the back are the ones who need to be brought to justice! May the Goddess take her rightful place again beside the God, so we can once again have sweet union in their presence! Blessed Be, Deborah

Victims of Morality

by Emma Goldman

Now, as to the prostitute. In spite of laws, ordinances, persecution, and prisons; in spite of segregation, registration, vice crusades, and other similar devices, the prostitute is the real specter of our age. She sweeps across the plains like a fire burning into every nook of life, devastating, destroying.
After all, she is paying back, in a very small measure, the curse and horrors society has strewn in her path. She, weary with the tramp of ages, harassed and driven from pillar to post, at the mercy of all, is yet the Nemesis of modern times, the avenging angel, ruthlessly wielding the sword of fire. For has she not the man in her power? And, through him, the home, the child, the race. Thus she slays, and is herself the most brutally slain.
What has made her? Whence does she come? Morality, the morality which is merciless in its attitude to women. Once she dared to be herself, to be true to her nature, to life, there is no return: the woman is thrust out from the pale and protection of society. The prostitute becomes the victim of Morality, even as the withered old maid is its victim.
But the prostitute is victimized by still other forces, foremost among them the Property Morality, which compels woman to sell herself as a sex commodity for 1000 dollar per, out of wedlock (contract), or for one hundred dollars a week, in the sacred fold of matrimony. The latter is no doubt safer, more respected, more recognized, but of the two forms of prostitution the girl of the street is the least hypocritical, the least debased, since her trade lacks the pious mask of hypocrisy; and yet she is hounded, fleeced, outraged, and shunned, by the very powers that have made her: the financier, the priest, the moralist, the judge, the jailor, and the detective, not to forget her sheltered, respectably virtuous sister; who is the most relentless and brutal in her persecution of the prostitute.
by Emma Goldman
First published in March, 1913

I was inspired by her -- just her as a person, from the interviews i read and heard around the time of her arrest. Sh was intelligent, articulate and impressive. I felt it to be incredibly unfair that she was being so obviously persecuted not because of what she'd done, but rather who had engaged her services.

RIP Deborah Jeanne. We won't forget you, or what you stood for.

See N ato S come gentlemans your love is all I crave. Yuo still be in the circus when I laughing laughing on my grave.

Debra Jeane, we will remember you and you fight for justice, and countless others who have died or had their lives ruined by oppression and prejudice. You were willing to take on the entire machinery of government to right wrongs and oppose unjust laws. We promise to try to make what you believed in happen. Rest in peace now, while we that are left fight on

Always felt she got a bum rap. She was providing a service that is as old as humanity. Another victim of Wahsington's holier-than-thou hypocrasy